關於建議的定義 a wrd n advice (第2/6頁)
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Soon，toosoon，sheleftandstartedherownlife。Itwasasthoughoursearationnecessitatedthatshewouldonceagainneed，andseekout，myadvice。Atfirstthiswasagoodthing，inthatIareciatedthefactthatshethoughtmywisdomwasworththetime。AfterawhileIcametotherealizationthatImightnotalwaysberight。Istartedtofearmyownanswerstoherquestions。
Mydaughterisnottheonlyersoninmylifethatasksforadvice。Mywifedoesitinanoddway。Iknowsheknowstheanswertoherquestionbutitisalmostasthoughshewantstocombineminewithhers。SometimeswhenIgiveheradviceshetakesitinandbasicallymakesherowndecisions。Othertimesshegivesmethatoddlookthatasks，
"Whatlanetwereyoubornon?
"EitherwayIdomybest。
Myarentshavestartedtoaskformyadvice。Thiswasverydifficultformetounderstand。MostofmylifemyfatherandmotherweretheonestodirectmeonhowIshouldhandlecertainsituations。Theyweretheoneswhosurvivedtheiryearssothattheycoulddirectmetowardcorrectdecisions。Nowtherolesseemtobereversed。IguessIshouldtakeitasacomlimentbecausethisshiftingofrolesmeansthattheyhavefinallycometotherealizationthatIamcaableofmakingcorrectchoices。Now，ifIcouldonlybelievethissamerealizationandfinallyrelaxinmynewrole。
Myfolksquestionsusuallysurroundtheirrearationforthefinalstagesoftheirlives。Ihatethesesituationsbecause，ifIadmitthattheyaregettingold，IamliterallyresigningmyselftothefactthatIamnotfaroff。IanswertheirquestionsasbestasIcan，rayingthatIamadvisingthemtodotherightthingsbuthowcouldIossiblyknow?Unlikegivingadvicetomydaughter，givingadvicetomyarentsinvolvesmeguessingwhattodowithouttheexerienceofgoingthroughwhattheyareresentlygoingthrough。Iguesstheyaskmebecausetheytrustme，likeIhavealwaystrustedthem。
Iamateacher。Infact，Iamahighschoolteacherwhoworkswithyoungadultswhoareabouttoembarkoncareersthatincludecollege，themilitary，orwork。EverydayIamaskedquestionsconcerninghowtheyshouldorganizefortheirfutures，awayfromalifethatcenteredontheirublicschool。Mosteoledontrealizethatgraduatingfromhighschoolisoneofthelast
"rightsofassage
"oursocietyhas。Thisistruebecausetheseyoungchildrenareleavingatimethathadtakenuover75%oftheiryounglives。
