生活態度最重要 0ne life attitude i irtant (第2/7頁)
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Thismeansthatnomatterwhathaenstoyou，itishowyoureactorresondtoitthatisimortant。
Youcantcontrolorinfluencecertaineventsinlife—earthquake，sabotage，terroristbombings，beingstruckbylightning，afreaktrafficaccidentandsoon。Butyoucancontrolhowyouthinkandfeelaboutsuchincidents，evenwhenyouaretheunfortunatevictimofanaccident。
Youcanchoosetomoanandgroanaboutyourmisfortune，aboutwhatyouhavelosthysicallyorfinancially。Oryoucanchoosetocountyourblessingsthatyouarestillalive，thatyouhavemostofyourhysicalormentalfaculties。Arolongednegativeattitudewouldmakeyoumiserableandregressivewhereasachangetoaositiveattitudewouldsuryoutothinkofossibilities。
Youcouldbetauntedordiscriminatedagainstifyoulostaleg，armoraneye。Youcanthelsomeinsensitiveeoledoingsuchthings。Ifyoufretoverwhatissaidandwhathasbeenderivedofyou，doesitmakeyouanyhaier，determined，erseveringorresourceful?
Therightattitudetotakeisnottoletinsults，sarcasm，rudeness，ridiculeormockerybotheryou。Whyresondnegativelytosuchbehavioursofothereole?Itdoesntaytostrikebackcontemtuouslyatthem。Ifyoudo，youareshowingthatyouareemotionallyweaker。
Showthatyouareemotionallystronger，thatyoudonothavetotradeinsultswithinsults，thatwhattheysayordodoesnotbotheryouatall。Showthedignitythattheydonothave。
Theainisnotinwhattheinsensitiveeolesayaboutyouordotobelittleyou。Theainisinhowyouinterretandreacttosuchacts。
Veryoften，wenegativelyover-reactto，or
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