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OneofthemostervasiveanddestructivementaltendenciesIveseenisthatoffocusingonwhatwewantinsteadofwhatwehave。Itdoesntseemtomakeanydifferencehowmuchwehave;wejustkeeexandingourlistofdesires，whichguaranteeswewillremaindissatisfied。Themind-setthatsays
"Illbehaywhenthisdesireisfulfilled
"isthesamemind-setthatwillreeatitselfoncethatdesireismet。
Wewantthisorthat。Ifwedontgetwhatwewant，wekeethinkingaboutallthatwedonthaveandweremaindissatisfied。Ifwedogetwhatwewant，wesimlyrecreatethesamethinkinginournewcircumstances。So，desitegettingwhatwewant，westillremainunhay。Hainesscantbefoundwhenweareyearningfornewdesires。
Luckily，thereisawaytobehay。Itinvolveschangingtheemhasisofourthinkingfromwhatwewanttowhatwehave。Ratherthanwishingyoursousewasdifferent，trythinkingaboutherwonderfulqualities。Insteadofcomlainingaboutyoursalary，begratefulthatyouhaveajob。RatherthanwishingyouwereabletotakeavacationtoHawaii，thinkofhowmuchfunyouhavehadclosetohome。Thelistofossibilitiesisendless!Eachtimeyounoticeyourselffallingintothe
"Iwishlifeweredifferent
"tra，backoffandstartover。Takeabreathandrememberallthatyouhavetobegrateful。Whenyoufocusnotonwhatyouwant，butonwhatyouhave，youendugettingmoreofwhatyouwantanyway。Ifyoufocusonthegoodqualitiesofyoursouse，shellbemoreloving。Ifyouaregratefulforyourjobratherthancomlainingaboutit，youlldoabetterjob，bemoreroductive，androbablyendugettingaraiseanyway。IfyoufocusonwaystoenjoyyourselfaroundhomeratherthanwaitingtoenjoyyourselfinHawaii，youllenduhavingmorefun。IfyoueverdogettoHawaii，youllbeinthehabitofenjoyingyourself。And，ifbysomechanceyoudont，youllhaveagreatlifeanyway。
Makeanotetoyourselftostartthinkingmoreaboutwhatyouhavethanwhatyouwant。Ifyoudo，yourlifewillstartaearingmuchbetterthanbefore。Forerhasthefirsttimeinyourlife，youllknowwhatitmeanstofeelsatisfied。
