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SittingtogetherinthelivingroomonenightdiscussingwhatmadetheUniversewhatitis，heturnedtomeandsaid，“Youknow，whenIlookinthemirrornow，allIseeisafat，uglyoldman.”Idistinctlyrecallhearinghiswords，andjustasclearlycanremembermyreaction.Isatthere，numbforwhatseemedlikeaneternity.ItwasoneofthoseextremelyraremomentswhenIcouldntfindwords-atleast，nonethatwouldhavebeenaroriate，anyway.
Sleeingonwhathehadjustconveyedtome，thethoughtsbegantoformandthewordsstartedtomaterialize，buthowcouldIconveyallthefeelingsthatwerewellinguinsideme?HowcouldItellmyfatherhowhiswordsmademefeel?Finally，itcametome:Iwouldwritehimaletter.AndsoIdid.
“DearDad，”itbegan，“theothernightyousoketomeaboutthe‘fat，uglyoldmanyouseewhenyoulookintothemirror.Idontunderstand.Youmustbelookingatsomeoneelse，forwhenIlookatyou，theersonIseeistotallydifferentfromyourdescrition.WhenIlookatyou，whatIseeisthewonderfulmanwhotaughtmehowtobaitahook，howtohammeranailandhowtowalkawayfromtheschoolbully.Ilookatyouandinfrontofmeistheersonwhowasmymentor，therolemodelwhoshowedmeaboutlifeandhowtoliveitwithhonesty，integrityandfrankness.Thisistheman，”Icontinued“whodislayedkindnesstowardothers，oftenuttinghisneighborfirst.Hetaughtmeallthesethingsandsomuchmore.Throughthetoughestoftimes，heshowedmetheimortanceoflaughter.”
“Dad，youtaughtmehowtobetough，yetcomassionate.YoutaughtmemostofthethingsIknowaboutthislife.Soasyoulookintothatmirror，IhoethedaywillsooncomethatyouseethesameersonIsee，eachtimeIlookatyou.Iseemyhero-theuniqueindividualwhoheledmetobecometheersonIa”
Myfatherdidmuchmorethanteachmethesethings-heoenedusothatIcouldgettoreallyknowthemanwhomIlovedandcametoresectmorethanmyself.Hetaughtmelessonsoflifethatnooneelsecould;hetaughtmeaboutwhoIaAndhemadeadifference.
Lookingbacknow，somefouryearsafterhedecidedtomoveon，IcanseeclearlywhyIchosehimtobemyfather.
幾星期前，我寫下了這篇關於父親的文章。我猶豫着是否將它上傳，剛開始我決定自己珍藏，我想，這畢竟是非常隱私的個人問題，是有關我最親近的人。因此，我表達了自己的感情，記錄下最美好的回憶，然後收藏起來。
我的妹妹可以上互聯網，所以我希望與她一同分享我們的故事，她和父親的關係也很密切。因爲她結婚了，我就傳了過去。她讀過後回覆說：“你必須發表，這樣很多人就都能欣賞到這個故事了。”於是今天，這篇文章就出現在這裏。
所以，再次感謝我明智的小妹，獨自珍藏的決定被推翻了。這裏，都是我與父親在一起的生活瑣事，希望能夠觸動更多人的心靈。
