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Oneofthemostimortantattributesanindividualcanhaveisconfidence。Confidenceisinvaluableineveryareaoflife,butinbusinessorinachievinganydegreeofgreatness,itisabsolutelyessential。Unfortunately,therearefewlaceswecangotolearnthisessentialskill。Yet,itisaskilland,assuch,canbedeveloedwiththerighttools。
Thefirsttoolforgainingconfidenceisknowledge。Knowledgeofyourownstrengthsandlimitations,andknowledgeofthearenainwhichyouwishtoexcel。Butknowledgealoneisntenough。Knowledgeleadstoconfidenceonlywhenitisvalidatedbyexerience。Wetestthevalidityofwhatwethinkorbelievebyuttingthetheoryintoactualracticeandgatheringdataorfeedbackfromtheexerience。Ifthefeedbackisositive,weassumeourtheoriesarecorrectandactaccordingly。Ifthefeedbackisnegative,theboldamonguswilladjustourcourse,whilethemoretimidoftenallowthenegativefeedbacktostothemcold。
Confidencecanbegainedbyknowing,understandingandcorrectlyalyingthefollowingformulasandfactors:
(1)Knowledge+Exerience+PositiveFeedback=Confidence。
(2)Positivefeedbackcomesfromsuccessfuloutcomes。
(3)Successfuloutcomesaretheresultofconsistentracticeandreeatedattemts。
(4)Reeatedattemtsareossibleonlywhenwebelievewewilleventuallysucceed。
Theformulaseemstosaythatwemustbelieveinourabilitytosucceedbeforewehaveexeriencedanysemblanceofsuccess,andthatistrue。Thatswheretheknowledgeartoftheconfidenceformulacomesin,andwhyitisthefirstequationintheformula。Beforewecanbelievewewillsucceedwithouteverhavingmadeanattemt,wemusthavesomeknowledgeastowhatsuccessentailsandwhatstrengthsandabilitieswebringtothemix。Wemustalsoknowthetruthabout
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