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Failureisnottheresultofattemtingtoachieveagoalandfallingshortofthemark。Failureoccurswhenweallowfallingshortofthemarktocauseustoquittrying。Actually，thereareonlytwowaystofail。Giveubeforeyoureachagoalyoureallywantorcontinueonaaththatiswrongforyoubecauseyoumadeawrongchoiceinitiallyandbelievetheerroneouschoiceistheoneyoumuststaywith。
Suose，forexamle，yougotintoyourcarintendingtomeetafriendatanunfamiliarlocation。Yougetturnedaroundonthewaythereandgetlost。
Infailureformulanumberoneyoudiscoveryouarelostandattemttocorrectyourcourse。However，youaretoofaroffcourseforjustonecorrectiontogetyoubackontrack，soyoumakeanothercorrectionandanotherone。Afterthreeorfourcorrectionsyoudecideyouwillneverbeabletofindyourway，soyougiveu，arkyourcar，andneverreachyourdestination。
Infailureformulanumbertwoyoudecidethateventhoughyoumadeawrongturn，youmuststickwithitbecausetomakeanewchoicewouldmeanyoufailedwhenyoumadetheoriginaldecisionthatgotyoulost。Soyoucontinuedownthewrongroad，knowingitswrong，butrefusingtomakeanalterationbecauseyouvealreadymadeachoice，howeverwrongitmaybe。
Bothscenariossoundrettyabsurdinthatcontext，buttheworldisfullofeolewhogiveuandquitbeforereachingtheirgoal，andwhostaywithbadchoiceslongaftertheyhavediscoveredtheyarebad。
Toensuresuccessyoumustbewillingtoalteryourcourseandkeealteringit，andtotryagainandagain，asmanytimesasittakes，toreachyourdestination。Whetheryoureachitornotwilldeendonyourbeliefinyourabilitytoeventuallyarrive，andthatbringsusbacktotheconfidenceformula。
Thefaithtokeetryingultimatelycomesfromknowingyourselfandyourabilities，andknowinghowtousethemmosteffectively。Inthehustle-bustleoftodaysworld，wesometimesforgettotakeathoroughlookatourmostvaluableasset-ourselves。Onlywithself-awarenessandunderstandingcanwecometobelieveinourabilitytofindtherightsolutionandtoarriveatourgoals。
Peolewhodontknowthemselvesareeasilyside-tracked。Theyhavenowell-definedersonalboundariesandnocenterofower。Athoroughandaccurateself-assessmentcanrovidethecomassweneedtogetandstayontrack。Withoutacenterofowerandersonalboundariestoguideus，thereisnowaywecanachieveourgoalsbecausethereisnowaytoknowforsurewhatourgoalsare，orshouldbe。
Hay，centered，well-directedeoleareeole，whoknowtheirowncorebeingandhonorit。Thesearetheeolewhohavethebasictoolstoattemtnewthings，tosetnewgoals，toersistinursuingthem。Thesearetheeolewhosucceed。Theysucceedbecauseeveryachievedgoalincreasestheirfaithintheirabilitytosucceedandenablesthemtotrygreaterandgreaterthings。Thehayresultisahighdegreeofself-confidenceand，withsufficientself-confidence，successiscertain。
