讓教訓不要重複出現 a len i reeated until learned (第1/6頁)
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佚名
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Haveyouevernoticedthatlessonstendtoreeatthemselves?Doesitseemasifyoumarriedordatedthesameersonseveraltimesindifferentbodieswithdifferentnames?Haveyourunintothesametyeofbossoverandoveragain?Ifyoudontdealwellwithauthorityfguresathome，thenyouwillhaveanoortunitytodealwiththemoutintheworld。Youwillcontinuallydrawintoyourlifeeolewhoneedtoenforceauthority，andyouwillstrugglewiththemuntilyoulearnthelessonofobedience。
Youwillcontinuallyattractthesamelessonintoyourlife。Youwillalsodrawtoyourteacherstoteachyouthatlessonuntilyougetitright。Youmaytrytoavoidthesituation，buttheywilleventuallycatchuwithyou。Theonlywayyoucanfreeyourselfofdiffcultatternsandissuesyoutendtoreeatisbyshiftingyourersectivesothatyoucanrecognizetheatternsandlearnthelessonsthattheyoffer。Tofacethesechallengesmeansyouneedtoaccetthefactthatsomethingwithinyoukeesdrawingyoutothesamekindofersonorissue，thoughthatsituationorrelationshimaybeveryainful。
Thechallenge，therefore，istoidentifyandreleasetheatternsthatyouarereeating。Thisisnoeasytask，sinceitmeansyouhavetochange，andchangeisnotalwayseasy。Stayingjustasyouaremaynothelyouadvancesiritually，butitcertainlyiscomfortableinitsfamiliarity。
Risingtothechallengeofidentifyingandreleasingyouratternsforcesyoutoadmitthatthewayyouhavebeendoingthingsisntworking。Thegoodnewsisthatbyidentifyingandreleasingtheattern，youactuallylearnhowtochange。Inordertofacilitateyourrocessofchange，youwillneedtolearnthelessonsofwillingnessandatience。Onceyoumasterthese，youwillmostlikelyfindthechallengeofidentifyingandreleasingyouratternsfarlessintimidating。
Therealsecrettobeingabletochangeisthewillingnesstodoso。Ifyouaretomakeanyrogressinexcavatingyourselffromthecyclesthatentrayou，youmustfrstidentifytheatternsthatkeeyoustuck。Thenyoucanbegintoreleasetheoldbehaviors。
Ifyoutrulywanttochange，youwillchoosetodoit，andmakeacommitmenttotherocessofit。However，ifyourelyonthethoughtthatyoushouldchange，youwillmakethedecisiontodosoandthenyouwillfeeltheinchofsacrifce。Followingthecurrenttrends，theadviceoffriends，orthewishesoffamilymembersresultindecision；followingyouinnercomassresultsinchoice。
Sowhenyouarestrugglingtomakeachangeinyourlife，askyourself，“HowwillingamI，really，tomakethischange?”Ifyouarenotsucceeding，theresagoodchancethatyoumayberelyingonyourbeliefthatyoushouldchange，ratherthanonyourintrinsicdesiretodoso。
