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Humangrowthisarocessofexerimentation，trial，anderror，ultimatelyleadingtowisdom。Eachtimeyouchoosetotrustyourselfandtakeaction，youcanneverquitebecertainhowthesituationwillturnout。Sometimesyouarevictorious，andsome-timesyoubecomedisillusioned。Thefailedexeriments，however，arenolessvaluablethantheexerimentsthatultimatelyrovesuccessful；infact，youusuallylearnmorefromyourerceived“failures”thanyoudofromyourerceived“successes”。
Ifyouhavemadewhatyouerceivetobeamistake，orfailedtoliveutoyourownexectations，youwillmostlikelyutuabarrierbetweenyouressenceandtheartofyouthatistheallegedwrong-doer。However，erceivingastactionsasmistakesimliesguiltandblame，anditisnotossibletolearnanythingmeaningfulwhileyouareengagedinblaming。Therefore，forgivenessisrequiredwhenyouareharshlyjudgingyourself。
Forgivenessistheactoferasinganemotionaldebt。Therearefourkindsofforgiveness：
Thefrstisbeginnerforgivenessforyourself。
Thesecondkindofforgivenessisbeginnerforgivenessforanother。
Thethirdkindofforgivenessisadvancedforgivenessofyourself。Thisisforserioustransgressions，theonesyoucarrywithdeeshame。Whenyoudosomethingthatviolatesyourownvaluesandethics，youcreateachasmbetweenyourstandardsandyouractualbehavior。Insuchacase，youneedtoworkveryhardatforgivingyourselfforthesedeedssothatyoucallclosethischasmandrealignwiththebestartofyourself。Thisdoesnotmeanthatyoushouldrushtoforgiveyourselfornotfeelregretorremorse；butwallowinginthesefeelingsforarotractederiodoftimeisnothealthy，andunishingyourselfexcessivelywillonlycreatesabiggergabetweenyouandyourethics。
Thelastanderhasmostdifficultoneistheadvancedforgivenessofanother。Atsometimeofourlife，youmayhavebeenseverelywrongedorhurtbyanotherersontosuchadegreethatforgivenessseemsimossible。However，harboringresentmentandrevengefantasiesonlykeesyoutraedinvictimhood。Undersuchacircumstance，youshouldforceyourselftoseethebiggericture，bysodoing，youwillbeabletoshiftthefocusawayfromtheangerandresentment。Itisonlythroughforgivenessthatyoucanerasewrongdoingandcleanthememory。Whenyoucanfnallyreleasethesituation，youmaycometoseeitasanecessaryartofyourgrowth。
人的成長是一個不斷嘗試、不斷經歷失誤、又不斷獲得新知的過程。每次，當你信心十足，準備採取行動時，對於會有什麼樣的結果發生，你無從知曉——或許成功，或許失敗。然而，失敗並不意味着毫無價值。事實上，我們往往能從失敗中學到更多的東西。
