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Oneofthemostimortantattributesanindividualcanhaveisconfidence.Confidenceisinvaluableineveryareaoflife，butinbusinessorinachievinganydegreeofgreatness，itisabsolutelyessential.Unfortunately，therearefewlaceswecangotolearnthisessentialskill.Yet，itisaskilland，assuch，canbedeveloedwiththerighttools.
Thefirsttoolforgainingconfidenceisknowledge.Knowledgeofyourownstrengthsandlimitations，andknowledgeoftheareainwhichyouwishtoexcel.Butknowledgealoneisntenough.Knowledgeleadstoconfdenceonlywhenitisvalidatedbyexerience.Wetestthevalidityofwhatwethinkorbelievebyuttingthetheoryintoactualracticeandgatheringdataorfeedbackfromtheexerience.Ifthefeedbackisositive，weassumeourtheoriesarecorrectandactaccordingly.Ifthefeedbackisnegative，theboldamonguswilladjustourcourse，whilethemoretimidoftenallowthenegativefeedbacktostothemcold.
Confidencecanbegainedbyknowing，understandingandcorrectlyalyingthefollowingformulasandfactors：
（1）Knowledge+Exerience+PositiveFeedback=Confdence.
（2）Positivefeedbackcomesfromsuccessfuloutcomes.
（3）Successfuloutcomesaretheresultofconsistentracticeandreeatedattemts.
（4）Reeatedattemtsareossibleonlywhenwebelievewewilleventuallysucceed.
Theformulaseemstosaythatwemustbelieveinourabilitytosucceedbeforewehaveexeriencedanysemblanceofsuccess，andthatistrue.Thatswheretheknowledgeartoftheconfdenceformulacomesin，andwhyitisthefrstequationintheformula.Beforewecanbelievewewillsucceedwithouteverhavingmadeanattemt，wemusthavesomeknowledgeastowhatsuccessentailsandwhatstrengthsandabilitieswebringtothemix.Wemustalsoknowthetruthabout“failure”.
